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You’re born a dyke. Going wildly off point though.

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You being a lesbian and he being straight is a recipe for disaster down the line. I don’t think that’s weird. And i’m really lucky that, besides some family reticence, it really has never been too traumatic.

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I thought lesbians had to look and act a certain way which turned me away from the label until i understood that i didn’t have to wear combat boots and plaid everyday to still be a lesbian. What do i do? my opinion, tell him and move on to someone who truly make’s you happy, and let him do the same. I say “straight” because that was the label she felt comfortable with, she never really liked bi or lesbian or gay or anything, she just didn’t relate to those labels. But what being in a lesbian relationship.

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I rented a room in a sober living boarding house, and soon began an affair with a housemate. But she never offered to reciprocate, and when i shyly asked her why, she shuddered. How did this fit with my identity? reverse coming out felt anxiety-inducing.

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I used to say lezdar was a talent that can’t be taught. As terry put it: “if you’re with a woman who is primarily attracted to other women, then even if she does sleep with you, you can’t really break her heart. I just rock my own thing.

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Your continued feeling that you are straight doesn’t surprise me (it sounds like you might indeed be heterosexual–see below); what surprises me is that you continue to identify as straight! you see, many women, whatever their orientation, feel most comfortable identifying based on the relationships they are in and/or on their emotional connections. I came out when i was sixteen and dealt with drama from my parents and “friends. I was actually way more self-conscious dating women than dating men.

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I have my own place, job and car. It was a cowardly, but understandable, way to get back at courtney. I know from my colleagues, students, and friends that “feminist dating blogger” is hardly the only heterosexual woman with a penchant for pursuing gay men.

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True, i talk of dreams. It is likely that the “wrongness” she was feeling in being with a woman but not feeling queer was due to the fact that she had a pattern of proactive desires for men (hetero orientation) and then had experienced fluidity towards her female partner. Surprise! she’s transitioned to male.

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I thought this concept was bullshit when caitlyn jenner proclaimed her continued straightness in that interview. I lust after a woman in a uniform, but sadly not all women in uniforms lust after me.

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The problem is, i haven’t told him about my past. You will be in daring new territory and, as you develop your expanded identity, you’ll become more comfortable with your own way. But there’s a male equivalent to this, and it’s one i know all too well.

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It’s just kinda weird! i’m weird! You’re in the right place.

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It’s probably a lot to take in even when you’re not drunk! your gf sounds very supportive and open-minded. Within a couple years, my parents posed to me a curious question:

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You just like the occasional romp with a lady, which is totally fine! Good luck! you can do this, and you will be fine and have a good and happy future, no matter what happens! xoxo. Oh, and baby gays, please learn from my mistakes. I was already teaching women’s studies; i worked with gay and lesbian students and activists on an almost daily basis; i volunteered with aids project los angeles.

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