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Every situation is unique and there are no hard and fast rules in life or love! questions are magic – they let you understand where that guy is coming from. We’ve all been there. Thank him each time he helps you and give him an oh-so-cute smile. Expecting a home cooked meal every single night makes for a relationship that will likely feel unbalanced in the long run.
This self-reflection exercise will help you feel more comfortable about sharing painful experiences from the past. Well tell me this. It is possible to stay with him for as long as you want, i know it’s hard to leave him. You should always try and think as if you were in her shoes.
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She is the one he will dream about. Now i was on 24 hr lock down and became her doormat. I am currently in a similar situation and i know he would never leave his girlfriend. I would have done anything for him.
He’s having problems with his girlfriend because he’s bad at confronting issues. Thank you so much!!! This is a sign that he is not into you and clearly he does not want to be with you on a date or to an outing. If you really like the guy, you may be tempted to steal him away from his girlfriend and break them up. If you’ve been dating for so quite awhile, and he’s resistant to even call you his girlfriend and doesn’t want to admit he’s in a relationship with you, you need to take the time to figure out the reasons behind that behavior. Now what? what do i do?
You can’t get out of the “friendzone”
If you don’t, do what you feel would be best for your health, no one else’s. Then, the guy might do the same thing with you. Over a year and i jusf connect with him even though he says he scared imma hurt him which doesn’t make sense due to the fact he has the family. Thanks for reaching out and telling your story.
Though i think you are risking getting attached to him and losing him because he could decide to be faithful to his girlfriend again or you can become a part of situation where he decides to leave his girlfriend to be with you. Thank our volunteer authors. For them, it is more curiosity rather than love or a crush. It got so bad i eventually cheated again as i was looking to end the relationship and run away.
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If you are sure he is with his parents then there is no need for concern. You were not judgmental at all and i think that is what makes it awesome. You are commenting using your facebook account.
But i want him! he’s special! i don’t care if he has a girlfriend!
Until now we are still communicating through chats, but it is not as frequent as before, though i must admit that the way we treat each other never change, it is special yet cannot be exactly defined, i just keep on fooling myself that what we have is only friendship though in reality it means more than that, and what’s worse is that i can’t stop my mind from wandering into his direction everyday, i also feel disappointment whenever the thought of not having him next to me flashes, i feel pain evertime i see his pictures with his girlfriend. My bf left me because of a fight :'( i cant get over him.